A lot has been said about the impact that toxic waste has on the environment. Consider the impact that toxic people have on your life. The fact is, people influence you every day. Do they inspire you or sap your energy? Do they serve as positive role models or negative influences? Do they want what’s best for you, or are they out for themselves? You probably know those who serve as positive or negative influences in your life.
You’re Only as Good as the Company You Keep
Toxic people pollute your attitude, retard your drive, and corrupt your morality. They drag you down, wear you out, and bring out the worst in you. This doesn’t mean toxic people always display detrimental behavior, but they definitely serve as a negative force in your life. As Ben Franklin said, “When you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas.”
Here are 16 types of toxic people. Have you seen any of them lately?
Critical. Some folks rarely see the good in the world. They find fault with everything.
Complainers. Some people whine all day long. Tiresome, isn’t it?
Unethical. Some folks probably know the difference between right and wrong, but you’d never know it.
Jealous. Some people envy the achievements of others. They view success with disdain — regardless of the effort and sacrifice required to achieve it.
Backstabbers. Some folks say they’re friends. Well…they’re not.
Takers. Some people are always on the take. They’re always asking for a favor. If you make a request, they magically disappear.
Pessimists. Some folks never see a bright sunny day. They only see clouds in the sky — depressing.
Bullies. Some people torment and intimidate others to make themselves feel powerful.
Haters. Some folks think they’ve been unfairly treated — they’re angry at the world — and they let you know it.
Mean-spirited. Some people are cruel and demeaning. They treat others like dirt.
Hypocrites. Some folks are quick to volunteer someone else, but rarely (if ever) raise their own hand — selfish.
Moody. Some people have more ups and downs than an elevator.
Righteous. Some folks constantly work at persuading you to adopt their values or way of thinking.
Egotists. Some people have real attitude. They think the world revolves around them and that they’re better than everyone else.
Rude. Some folks never learned proper manners. They’re vulgar, disrespectful, and flat-out offensive at times.
Greedy. Some people never have enough. They’re like sharks that spend their entire life hunting and consuming.
Do You Know Any Toxic People?
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Additional Reading:
Who’s Your Hero?
13 Ways To Be a Good Role Model
It’s Time for Grown-Ups to Grow Up
The Many Faces of Greed
With All Due DISrespect…Clean Up Your Act
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Marilyn says
Toxic people are also family members even your child. It’s hard to wrap your head around it. You deny it and blame yourself but it’s really them.
Frank Sonnenberg says
Hi Marilyn
As the saying goes, “You can’t choose your family, but you can choose your friends.”
Thanks for taking the time to write.
Best,
Frank
Nitya Rambhadran says
Nice Article!
My whole life has revolved around the toxic people but I never realised the damage it caused. Only after, I moved away from the toxic and negative people, I could see my life transforming.
You can never be happy or succeed in life unless you move away from the toxic people. Because, they are never happy and can’t bear to see others happy as well.
Frank Sonnenberg says
Bravo Nitya
You learned a very important lesson.
The fact is, positive people are caring, giving, and supportive. They set high standards and live honorable lives. They’ll inspire you to be your best and help you to reach your full potential.
Thanks for taking the time to write.
Best,
Frank
Haney says
Gratitude and humility eliminates these tendencies.
Thus people who lack gratitude and humility
Portray many of these tendencies, with one or more
Being there root tendency.
Frank Sonnenberg says
Hi Haney
I agree that gratitude and humility go a long way to eliminate these tendencies. I also believe qualities such as honesty, trustworthiness, fairness, integrity, tolerance, empathy, selflessness, and authenticity are critical.
Thanks for taking the time to write.
Best,
Frank
Get Inspired with Cheryl says
A healthy relationship is one that gives you the stability of roots and the freedom of wings. You feel at home and comfortable as your real, deserving self and you can also follow your bliss where it takes you
Frank Sonnenberg says
Well said, Cheryl. Thanks so much for sharing 🙂
Best,
Frank