Nobody wants to be called mediocre. It’s like the screeching sound of someone’s nails on a blackboard. Yet, unfortunately, we’re surrounded by mediocrity. The bad news is that it’s contagious; the good news is that there’s a cure.
Mediocrity isn’t something that’s forced upon us; we bring it on ourselves. The fact is, negative habits produce negative results. Mediocrity doesn’t happen to us; it’s created by us.
15 Common Habits of Mediocre People
Mediocrity rears its ugly head when people have a poor attitude, misguided philosophy, or bad habits. Know the warning signs and take appropriate action to counter them.
- Lack of accountability. You always have a clever excuse or someone to blame so that you can dodge responsibility.
- Complacency. You made it to the top and think you can rest on your laurels and live off your past accomplishments.
- Victim mentality. You convince yourself that everyone’s against you and that success is beyond your control — so you stop trying to affect the outcome.
- Lack of candid feedback. You rarely receive, nor do you want, feedback, so it’s hard for you to know where improvement is needed. As a result, you never learn from mistakes.
- Low expectations. You set the bar so low for yourself that you’re pleased with mediocre performance.
- Poor reward system. You’ve stopped trying because there’s no distinction in your organization between exceptional and poor performance.
- Bad influence. You surround yourself with low achievers. Unfortunately, their behavior is contagious.
- Lack of competition. You’re the only game in town so folks have no option but to do business with you.
- No conscience. Politics takes precedence over doing what’s right, and appearances become more important than outcome.
- Get something for nothing. You’re rewarded based on tenure rather than merit, so there’s no incentive to keep up with the times or to go the extra mile.
- Poor leadership. You easily achieve results because the bar was set artificially low. The truth is, when you tolerate mediocrity, you get more of it.
- Lack of commitment. You dip your toe in the water because you’re afraid to go all in. The result is that a superficial effort leads to superficial results.
- Crave acceptance. You lower your personal standards to win social acceptance and become a member of the in-crowd.
- Think you’re a know-it-all. You put learning on the back burner and become obsolete over time.
- Apathy. You’ve been underperforming for so long you don’t even recognize excellence anymore.
Are You in Danger of Becoming Mediocre?
If you think mediocre behavior is acceptable, I have news for you. Just as exercise conditions your body and makes you stronger and more resilient, the same holds true for your mindset. When there are no consequences for mediocre behavior, you can easily be lulled into a false sense of security — believing that mediocrity doesn’t matter.
The problem is, when you think you’re fooling the world, you’re only kidding yourself.
One day, when it’s important for you to put your best foot forward, you’ll learn that your skills have atrophied and you’ve lost your edge. You’ll come to realize that you’ve been coasting for so long that mediocrity isn’t just a bad habit — it’s who you are. Please don’t let that happen!
Have you ever had a parent, coach, teacher, or boss who pushed you to your limits? The odds are that you resented them, and you may even have mumbled under your breath. The truth is, they gave you the gift of a lifetime. They helped mold you into a strong, confident, and productive person. They also taught you to demand a lot of yourself because you have the potential to achieve anything you desire — as long as you work hard and put your mind to it. The fact is, their gift will remain with you for life. It’s in your DNA. They taught you to make yourself proud and never to succumb to mediocrity. The fact is, mediocre behavior is a choice. I hope you choose to say, “NO!”
How Do You Feel About Mediocrity?
Please leave a comment and tell us what you think or share it with someone who can benefit from the information.
Additional Reading:
Step Up Your Game
Do You Say, “It’s Not My Job?”
Great Things Start with Great Expectations
Do You Discourage Excellence?
Do You Do Your Best or Just Enough to Get By?
If You’re Not Proud, You’re Not Done
Thanks for a Job Well Done
If you like this article, subscribe to our blog so that you don’t miss a single post. Get future posts by RSS feed, email or Facebook. It’s FREE.
Sarah says
One of your best blogs, Frank. So important
Frank Sonnenberg says
Thanks Sarah
I’m glad you like it.
I strongly believe that we can achieve anything as long as we work hard and put our mind to it. It’s our choice, and ours alone, whether we capitalize or squander our time on earth.
“Mediocre behavior is a choice. I hope you choose to say, ‘NO!’ “
Thanks for taking the time to write.
Best,
Frank
Carmen Alvarado says
Hi.
I recently started a blog on making changes at a later age. I can now see how mediocrity can relate to not making those changes.
Thank you for sharing this.
Frank Sonnenberg says
My pleasure Carmen. I’m glad you like it. Good luck with your blog 🙂
Best,
Frank
carlos says
hello…i saw this topic sometime back,i wrote down some notes..ive been helping my friends to chaange their bad habits.
thank you.takecare
i am carlos from kenya africa
Frank Sonnenberg says
That’s wonderful Carlos. You keep up the good work, too 🙂
Best,
Frank
Eugene says
Mediocrity…a choice and a contagious disease…that hits the nail on the head…my head. I think I am cured now. Thanks for sharing.
Frank Sonnenberg says
Hi Eugene
There are several ways that people respond to feedback. Some folks shoot the messenger (ouch) while others treat feedback as criticism and go into denial. A third type treat feedback as supportive advice and try to modify their behavior — you fall into this category. Those people grow as individuals and better themselves every day. As I say, “Practice doesn’t make perfect if you’re doing it wrong.”
Thanks for taking the time to write.
Best,
Frank
Anitha KC says
Nice post!
“When there are no consequences for mediocre behavior, you can easily be lulled into a false sense of security.”
Very much true. Either external or internal energy is needed to come out of that status.
Resistance to start/change and ‘Its okay’ kind of mindset, make us get stranded in Mediocrity.
Here is my thought on resistance @ https://resonanceoflife.home.blog/2018/12/07/enough/
Frank Sonnenberg says
Anitha
Thanks for your thoughts and for sharing your post. I totally concur with your sage advice. Good luck with your writing 🙂
Best,
Frank
D. McNaughton says
What a wonderful post, Frank. It really spoke to me as I have a couple of family members who have given into mediocrity. I ask myself how they got this way and I think some early failures allowed their fears to overwhelm them. Instead of facing up to the anxiety that follows and moving past it, they justify inaction and stay mediocre. We become enablers by giving them a pass for too long.
Frank Sonnenberg says
Thank you Debbie. I’m glad you like it 🙂
Mediocre behavior is a choice. It doesn’t cost more to strive for excellence, but if you settle for mediocrity, it’ll cost you dearly. As I say, “Always give 110%. It’s the extra 10% that everyone remembers.”
Thanks for taking the time to write.
Best,
Frank