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Bridge the Gap Between Your Real and Ideal Self

Ever wonder why there’s a gap between who you are and who you want to become? If there’s a meaningful gap between who you are and who you aspire to be, ask yourself why. Do you arbitrarily set priorities, make choices, or act without intention? Remember, if you don’t have a goal in mind, you can’t expect to achieve it. Which of the following 20 traits best describe the desired you?

• She brings out the best in others and makes them feel special.
• He always puts others’ needs ahead of his own.
• She practices her faith every day, not only on Sundays.
• He stands up for people who can’t stand up for themselves.
• She is fiercely patriotic — and never takes freedom for granted.
• He made it to the top, yet he never forgot his roots.
• She had it tough, but she never gave up.
• He always finds time for folks, even when he’s busy.
• She’s incredibly successful but never flaunts it.
• He has a work ethic that’s second to none.
• She is tough, but she’s always fair.
• He sets high expectations for others — and himself.
• She really steps up when friends need someone in their corner.
• He never has a bad thing to say about anyone.
• She’s always appreciative. She never takes things for granted.
• He never misses his kid’s ball game or dance recital.
• She’s authentic. She doesn’t pretend to be someone she’s not.
• He knows he’s good but doesn’t rub it in your face.
• She’s brutally honest. She tells it like it is.
• He treats the janitor with the same respect that he gives his boss.

Who are you? What are the values that define you? If you don’t know the real you, it may be time to give that some thought. After all, wouldn’t it be sad to spend your whole life with someone you never really got to know? What mark do you want to make on the world? What legacy do you want to leave behind? Close the gap between who you are and who you want to become.

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Additional Reading:
To Be or Not to Be
If You Believe You Can’t, You Won’t
Great Things Start with Great Expectations
What Defines You as a Person?
50 Powerful Ways to Become a Better Person
35 Questions to Inspire Self-Reflection
Mental Barriers: What’s Holding You Back?

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